Worldstraveller

Robin joins the Roster!

I can’t get sick of this gif set xDD

chloe-valens:

眩しいけれど 僕は光の傍にいたい

friendlyfellowtraveller:

I love this place and use it frequently. Blogging all thequietplaceproject.com’s links because we all need some calm.

inw0nd3rl4nd:

this is making me feel so much better rn. get everything off my mind!
ahhhhhhhhh.:)

inw0nd3rl4nd:

this is making me feel so much better rn. get everything off my mind!

ahhhhhhhhh.:)

onawingandaword:

Let’s clear something up, The men’s rights movement, at it’s core, is not about getting back at women. It’s about the specific injustices faced by men.

There seems to be a lot of animosity, arguing about who deserves justice, and who’s rights are really being trampled on…

Totally agreed.

After all, we are humans first born with free will and conscience of our own that shapes our identity.

sosungalittleclodofclay:

worldstraveller:

sosungalittleclodofclay:

worldstraveller:

bobafettuccini:

booksomewench:

sylentsage:

booksomewench:

sylentsage:

drawology:

lisarighteye:

hopelessly-hope-ful:

jackekarashae:

*AGGRESSIVELY FORWARDS TO EVERY GUY I KNOW*

*TIME TRAVELS AND AGGRESSIVELY FORWARDS TO PAST SELF*

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

ALWAYS REBLOG!

I love this guy, this video convinced me to follow him, you should too:

https://www.youtube.com/user/the1janitor

I’m kind of tempted to toss the line “You seem cool, can I be in your friendzone?” out to women I am just getting to know. Poll: would this read as a sincere indication that I don’t want to have sex with them, or creepy?

(note: I could use the term with men too, I just tend to have more friends who are ladies)

If I didn’t know you, I’d assume it was a kind of come on, like ‘I totally want to bang, but I know you’re already going to friendzone me, so I’m going to make a joke about it and pretend like I’m not already totally resentful.’ I wouldn’t recommend it.

I figured as much. Since you do know me, can I be in your friendzone?

You have a permanent place there, sweetheart.

Why is it not ok for guys to talk about how upsetting it is to have strong feelings for someone, but still have to spend time around that person because they consider you a great friend and want you to stay close.

Because you all know darn well that if we were to stop being around that person, we’d get branded as a jerk, even though all we’re doing is protecting ourselves from having to have our heart chipped away at every single day until your relationship with said person is just numbing and fake.

It’s not all about feeling entitled for being nice, or what we feel we’re owed. It’s what we owe ourselves, because being in love with someone who doesn’t love you back can really hurt.

And Tumblr tries to tell me 8 millions times a day I’m not supposed to feel like that.

If you LOVE someone whether is a friend, family or someone you have “romantic feelings” for, when love someone you don’t need to be in “romantic relationship”, if you love them for their company and them as a person - that should be enough, then when is not going Your Way or you want MORE, then that just being selfish and greedy.

you need to do the active fucking listening thing

It’s not all about feeling entitled for being nice, or what we feel we’re owed. It’s what we owe ourselves, because being in love with someone who doesn’t love you back can really hurt.”


I don’t think is okay being selfish over others, you don’t command people feelings neither anyone over your feelings, only you have the choice and will to overcome that sadness.

uh huh


distancing yourself from someone you love, because it doesn’t love you “romantically” but loves you as an important friend, a part of her life as she/he’s yours.
why don’t you see also from her perspective all the same, why just only your perspective?

8,000,001

"Why is it not ok for guys to talk about how upsetting it is to have strong feelings for someone, but still have to spend time around that person because they consider you a great friend and want you to stay close.

"Because you all know darn well that if we were to stop being around that person, we’d get branded as a jerk, even though all we’re doing is protecting ourselves from having to have our heart chipped away at every single day until your relationship with said person is just numbing and fake.”

read what people wrote ya freaking asshole

if you read the way I wrote, was I being rude for you to call me asshole?

Yes.

Yes you were.


(Caps lock use, it’s because I’m too lazy to use bold if is just for click)
back to the point, I will explain again, since it seems I didn’t explained well.
why have to be seen from ONE SIDE and not BOTH SIDES?

you aren’t arguing for ‘both’

you said:

Your Way or you want MORE, then that just being selfish and greedy”

If you LOVE someone whether is a friend, family or someone you have “romantic feelings” for, when love someone you don’t need to be in “romantic relationship” “

You’re arguing directly against him.

is not the A person fault not feel the same kind of love that the B person does and vice-versa, when you look at it , both sides are one-sided, one-sided friendship love from the one “who doesn’t have romantic feelings” and one-sided romantic love, it’s like both sides whatever they give to the other is being reflected, because they both rejecting whatever they give.
the person A is rejecting Person B romantic affections, while Person B is rejecting friendship affections, despite the base being the same, love. Both sides have to find a way to deal with it, since it matters to both, you have to go to the grey area.

Ass.

he isn’t arguing for a relationship

he’s arguing about whether or not he’s allowed to be sad about a failure to achieve one in public.

which you are denying him.

ass

stop calling me ass, please, since I wasn’t being rude.

thanks for clearing out, anyone has the right feeling hurtful, it is part of the own individual condition, but still doesn’t change he has to overcome, to keep moving forward, you have 2 choices in these situations, reflect and learn on your experience and move forward or stop in the middle of the road and mourning.
when I said “overcoming sadness”, did I said it happens overnight?
it’s slow, but eventually progresses, no point in seeing negatively.


I want to try to understand a part of what you just said to clear me out:

 allowed to be sad about a failure to achieve one in public.
do you mean by society or peer pressure to have a romantic relationship as one of an individual’s life achievements as non-optional as saying “not having a romantic relationship=loser”?

I’m maybe mistaken as your interpretation of what he said 
and meant that the person in question that is sad maybe he put himself in high standards of his life expectations or social life expectations?

what I said, I based on my interpretation of why he sad about this, since is possible that person who had romantic feelings may have treated him as “disposable friend” (which if is that way, that’s just mean), if not they can always work on a solution by talking about it if doesn’t work, it would be wiser to be over and leave as  acquaintances or not, whatever works best for both, even though can end hurtful for both sides but at least was solved and they can move forward.
we don’t really know about his situation to be sure if is by societal expectations or of his own or for being attached to this person.

sosungalittleclodofclay:

worldstraveller:

sosungalittleclodofclay:

worldstraveller:

bobafettuccini:

booksomewench:

sylentsage:

booksomewench:

sylentsage:

drawology:

lisarighteye:

hopelessly-hope-ful:

jackekarashae:

*AGGRESSIVELY FORWARDS TO EVERY GUY I KNOW*

*TIME TRAVELS AND AGGRESSIVELY FORWARDS TO PAST SELF*

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

ALWAYS REBLOG!

I love this guy, this video convinced me to follow him, you should too:

https://www.youtube.com/user/the1janitor

I’m kind of tempted to toss the line “You seem cool, can I be in your friendzone?” out to women I am just getting to know. Poll: would this read as a sincere indication that I don’t want to have sex with them, or creepy?

(note: I could use the term with men too, I just tend to have more friends who are ladies)

If I didn’t know you, I’d assume it was a kind of come on, like ‘I totally want to bang, but I know you’re already going to friendzone me, so I’m going to make a joke about it and pretend like I’m not already totally resentful.’ I wouldn’t recommend it.

I figured as much. Since you do know me, can I be in your friendzone?

You have a permanent place there, sweetheart.

Why is it not ok for guys to talk about how upsetting it is to have strong feelings for someone, but still have to spend time around that person because they consider you a great friend and want you to stay close.

Because you all know darn well that if we were to stop being around that person, we’d get branded as a jerk, even though all we’re doing is protecting ourselves from having to have our heart chipped away at every single day until your relationship with said person is just numbing and fake.

It’s not all about feeling entitled for being nice, or what we feel we’re owed. It’s what we owe ourselves, because being in love with someone who doesn’t love you back can really hurt.

And Tumblr tries to tell me 8 millions times a day I’m not supposed to feel like that.

If you LOVE someone whether is a friend, family or someone you have “romantic feelings” for, when love someone you don’t need to be in “romantic relationship”, if you love them for their company and them as a person - that should be enough, then when is not going Your Way or you want MORE, then that just being selfish and greedy.

you need to do the active fucking listening thing

It’s not all about feeling entitled for being nice, or what we feel we’re owed. It’s what we owe ourselves, because being in love with someone who doesn’t love you back can really hurt.”


I don’t think is okay being selfish over others, you don’t command people feelings neither anyone over your feelings, only you have the choice and will to overcome that sadness.

uh huh


distancing yourself from someone you love, because it doesn’t love you “romantically” but loves you as an important friend, a part of her life as she/he’s yours.
why don’t you see also from her perspective all the same, why just only your perspective?

8,000,001

"Why is it not ok for guys to talk about how upsetting it is to have strong feelings for someone, but still have to spend time around that person because they consider you a great friend and want you to stay close.

"Because you all know darn well that if we were to stop being around that person, we’d get branded as a jerk, even though all we’re doing is protecting ourselves from having to have our heart chipped away at every single day until your relationship with said person is just numbing and fake.”

read what people wrote ya freaking asshole

if you read the way I wrote, was I being rude for you to call me asshole?

Yes.

Yes you were.


(Caps lock use, it’s because I’m too lazy to use bold if is just for click)
back to the point, I will explain again, since it seems I didn’t explained well.
why have to be seen from ONE SIDE and not BOTH SIDES?

you aren’t arguing for ‘both’

you said:

Your Way or you want MORE, then that just being selfish and greedy”

If you LOVE someone whether is a friend, family or someone you have “romantic feelings” for, when love someone you don’t need to be in “romantic relationship” “

You’re arguing directly against him.

is not the A person fault not feel the same kind of love that the B person does and vice-versa, when you look at it , both sides are one-sided, one-sided friendship love from the one “who doesn’t have romantic feelings” and one-sided romantic love, it’s like both sides whatever they give to the other is being reflected, because they both rejecting whatever they give.
the person A is rejecting Person B romantic affections, while Person B is rejecting friendship affections, despite the base being the same, love. Both sides have to find a way to deal with it, since it matters to both, you have to go to the grey area.

Ass.

explain to me why I’m being an ass? in what I said makes me an ass? for being redundant? am I defending both sides? or one side? I’m pointing out the problem from both sides, the relationship isn’t reciprocal, if it isn’t, there is no point in investing on keep trying to change from an friendship to a romantic relationship.
as if romantic relationship is the next step in a relationship that starts from friendship, to me isn’t next step, this is changing what kind of relationship you’re looking for and expecting from that person.
I do only say this, because this kind of situation can happen in friendship as well, I got through being treated as “disposable friend” or “friend of pleasure”, temporary friend, to be more accurate, when  what I expected and thought was a true friend and it wasn’t, I had my very hurtful disappointments.
This can happen in any kind of relationship you build, it can be one sided - romantic, friendship, family, even pets, there isn’t exceptions.

One that is reciprocal even in grey areas is rare, having bonds with those that love for who you are and cherish you, should be enough.
why make it complicated? why labelling them in the first place? I always find that intriguing.

sosungalittleclodofclay:

worldstraveller:

bobafettuccini:

booksomewench:

sylentsage:

booksomewench:

sylentsage:

drawology:

lisarighteye:

hopelessly-hope-ful:

jackekarashae:

*AGGRESSIVELY FORWARDS TO EVERY GUY I KNOW*

*TIME TRAVELS AND AGGRESSIVELY FORWARDS TO PAST SELF*

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

ALWAYS REBLOG!

I love this guy, this video convinced me to follow him, you should too:

https://www.youtube.com/user/the1janitor

I’m kind of tempted to toss the line “You seem cool, can I be in your friendzone?” out to women I am just getting to know. Poll: would this read as a sincere indication that I don’t want to have sex with them, or creepy?

(note: I could use the term with men too, I just tend to have more friends who are ladies)

If I didn’t know you, I’d assume it was a kind of come on, like ‘I totally want to bang, but I know you’re already going to friendzone me, so I’m going to make a joke about it and pretend like I’m not already totally resentful.’ I wouldn’t recommend it.

I figured as much. Since you do know me, can I be in your friendzone?

You have a permanent place there, sweetheart.

Why is it not ok for guys to talk about how upsetting it is to have strong feelings for someone, but still have to spend time around that person because they consider you a great friend and want you to stay close.

Because you all know darn well that if we were to stop being around that person, we’d get branded as a jerk, even though all we’re doing is protecting ourselves from having to have our heart chipped away at every single day until your relationship with said person is just numbing and fake.

It’s not all about feeling entitled for being nice, or what we feel we’re owed. It’s what we owe ourselves, because being in love with someone who doesn’t love you back can really hurt.

And Tumblr tries to tell me 8 millions times a day I’m not supposed to feel like that.

If you LOVE someone whether is a friend, family or someone you have “romantic feelings” for, when love someone you don’t need to be in “romantic relationship”, if you love them for their company and them as a person - that should be enough, then when is not going Your Way or you want MORE, then that just being selfish and greedy.

you need to do the active fucking listening thing

It’s not all about feeling entitled for being nice, or what we feel we’re owed. It’s what we owe ourselves, because being in love with someone who doesn’t love you back can really hurt.”


I don’t think is okay being selfish over others, you don’t command people feelings neither anyone over your feelings, only you have the choice and will to overcome that sadness.

uh huh


distancing yourself from someone you love, because it doesn’t love you “romantically” but loves you as an important friend, a part of her life as she/he’s yours.
why don’t you see also from her perspective all the same, why just only your perspective?

8,000,001

"Why is it not ok for guys to talk about how upsetting it is to have strong feelings for someone, but still have to spend time around that person because they consider you a great friend and want you to stay close.

"Because you all know darn well that if we were to stop being around that person, we’d get branded as a jerk, even though all we’re doing is protecting ourselves from having to have our heart chipped away at every single day until your relationship with said person is just numbing and fake.”

read what people wrote ya freaking asshole

if you read the way I wrote, was I being rude for you to call me asshole?
(Caps lock use, it’s because I’m too lazy to use bold if is just for click)
back to the point, I will explain again, since it seems I didn’t explained well.
why have to be seen from ONE SIDE and not BOTH SIDES?
is not the A person fault not feel the same kind of love that the B person does and vice-versa, when you look at it , both sides are one-sided, one-sided friendship love from the one “who doesn’t have romantic feelings” and one-sided romantic love, it’s like both sides whatever they give to the other is being reflected, because they both rejecting whatever they give.
the person A is rejecting Person B romantic affections, while Person B is rejecting friendship affections for wanting to maintain the friendship, despite the base being the same, love. Both sides have to find a way to deal with it, since it matters to both, you have to go to the grey area, somehow, if doesn’t work then don’t waste your time, since it won’t go anywhere like this.

lotr meme: eight scenes (4/8)

"My friends, you bow to no one"